Recently, I found myself in a slump.
You know a slump, don’t you? Baseball pitchers hit them all the time. After a streak of bad throws, they think their past throws are their future portion. Losing is their destiny. A few too-far-left or too-far-right throws become a heavy weighted burden. I’m messing up the whole game, I’m not going to do well, I can’t fix how I am throwing.
A slump is when you get so down on yourself, you can’t see out of the hole you’ve put yourself in.
Are you there today?
Regarding my slump? I didn’t like how I was acting. I wasn’t seeing God’s goodness. I was judging others, thinking negatively, becoming offended and perturbed by little issues. Ugh. I don’t want to do this anymore.
I decided to try harder. I can act better than this!
Which, of course, only made matters worse. Deeper, I went into the hole. One I couldn’t climb out of.
Maybe you’re here today: angry that you keep on thinking about that one girl, unsure how to ditch that mindset of comparison, destroyed that you can’t win your battle against finances, broken because you keep responding unkindly to people, uncertain because God still hasn’t shown up yet, sad because you thought life would be better than this. Are you in a hole you can’t climb out of?
“He saved us, not on the basis of deeds, which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit.” (Titus 3:5)
I translate this personally as: He saved me, not by the hard work of Kelly Balarie, nor the decisive nature of my strong will to “not sin”, but according to the unwarranted mercy Jesus poured out on the cross, which works itself into me today through a washing and renewal solely done by the work of the Holy Spirit.
This mouthful makes me hope-filled. It’s not me that does the work, but God. It is not my saving work that saves me, but Jesus’ saving power at work within me. I come and ask for forgiveness, and it is God who gives me every divine thing I need for godliness.
The same goes for you.
Yet, it is hard to receive life, if we aren’t surrounded by it. I’ve noticed when I flood my mind with truth, it starts to believe and receive it. Yet, when I am drowning in my own thoughts and not finding that renewal, I sink.
One way to surround yourself with truth, new life and the renewal of the Holy Spirit is to join the 2018 Journey Together Summit (40+ authors/leaders will share about their life struggles, issues and how they overcame through Christ). This event starts today a and continues through to Friday. I’d love it if you join in with me as I talk with some amazing Christian authors, leaders and ministers.
It is all new content from last years summit (and we pray – a lot!)
Topics include:
Why Your Mind-set Matters
When a Marriage is Blowing Up
Fighting the Lies Every Parent Hears
Hope for the Financially Frustrated Mama
When Spiritual Strongholds Keep You Stuck
Confronting Shame
When Health Issues Isolate You
When the Past Hurts
I am Discouraged
People Tire Me
and more…
See the full agenda here: www.journeytogethersummit.com
The starts today, THIS TUESDAY, so sign up ASAP. (And if you can’t grab the interviews live, feel free to upgrade the ticket to watch them when they fit your schedule.)
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Slumps can be so hard to walk through! Knowing that you are not the only one helps. Praying the summit touches many hearts!
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Kelly, I’ve been in those “thought-life” slumps before. They’re terrible. Your words about how to get out of that slump by surrounding ourselves with truth and new life are spot-on. When we refresh our minds and spirits with God’s word, we can move beyond that slump.
Great post!
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Kelly,
You’re doing an amazing job helping women mature. Praying God’s blessing over your ministry.
Much love,
~Sherry
xoxo
Kelly, I’m praying this summit will be an encouragement to many today! Will share it on social media. <3
I’m all too familiar with slumps and I’m looking forward to tuning in to the summit. laurensparks.net
Lately, the message I keep hearing is God loves us no matter what. Clinging to that and trying to quite performing for God.
Yes, we’ve all been in those slumps and then find ourselves digging deeper into that hole with our own self-effort. Thanks for your hopeful words reminding us it’s not us … it’s by relying on Christ! Blessings with your summit. I know many will be blessed and encouraged!