If someone told me I’d write a book on fear, I’d have laughed in their face and told them, “There’s as much a chance of that as an ant marching in world peace.”
Not. Going. To. Happen.
But, here I am – I wrote a book – on fear, nonetheless.
Only with God. Only with God, can what you declared too scary, too high and too wild for you – become possible. Only with God, do the weak become warriors. Only with God, do those who feel like outcasts get cast out to bring others close to his love.
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. (2 Cor. 1:3-4)
God is a wild ride.
The blessing is – he takes you peacefully, not with your hair flying back all wide and your heart plummeting to the ground. It feels, usually, more fluid.
But, this story isn’t about me. Not one bit. It’s not even about how I was a horrible, no good, hated writer. It’s not about how bosses, teachers, and my inner critic laughed in my writing-face! Nope. It’s not about my inability to ever follow through on anything. Nor my tendency to blame away any opportunity as “not good enough”, because I was desperately and hopelessly fearful it was exactly what God meant for me.
It’s not about all that – because it’s about you.
Because, when I think of YOU, every time, my heart pumps a little more. Suddenly, I accept you’re, in many ways, the same as me. Some of you are afraid of lice and little bugs and what a disorganized house says about you. Or, you’re terrified your kid is going to leave Jesus to become consumed with the next pop star showing pearly whites and tanned biceps. Or, you’re not sure you’ll ever amount to anything and you fear failure – so you pretend you are disinterested in your greatest dreams, God’s leadings and massive opportunities. Maybe, you freeze. You run. You hide. You do it all because you’re desperately afraid people won’t like you. And, you’re 100% confident of one thing – you’ll never stack up to her – the All-star with the perfect car. Nope. You’ll never…ever look like her – in all her Facebook glory! Every day you hate her a little bit for that.
So, my sister in fear, I think of you….
And, this is why I wrote this book, Fear Fighting: Awakening Courage to Overcome Your Fears.”
Because we get each other. We know what it is like to worry, wrestle and war against anxiety day-in and day-out. And, with you, rather than against you, I believe, together, we can win. Like, if we strip it all off (not literally) and just get really honest, supportive and unified, we will have power as we move forward. We can raise our finger to Jesus and remind each other, “He won’t leave us!”
So, in actuality, my thoughts about you – are also largely about me (sorry). I need you.
And, most of all I need God.
Because, there is no way out of the dark, without Jesus. No woman ever has ever done it alone.
Sometimes, we all need a helping hand.
Accepting help is half the battle. I am sure of it.
With all this said, I hope my book, Fear Fighting feels like a helping hand to you. That’s my dream. That it would just as much bolster your courage, as it did mine. That God would just as much meet you, as he did me. That you’d just as much find his love, as I did – and am.
It’s not like life is perfect now. But it is pacified. The edge is gone.
It’s not like I have all the answers. But, I feel okay that I don’t. I am giving space to not knowing.
It’s not like the journey isn’t ongoing. But, I am rapidly growing. I see God teaching me new things all the time.
Instead of trembling, I am more and more, walking into God’s greatest callings.
I am shedding the weight of comparison and jealousy for the life-charging power of love and grace.
I am holding tight to daily bravery decrees instead of buckling at my knees at the first mention of the flu.
I’ve exchanged fretting for the feeling of being on fire for God. I want this for all my sisters in Christ Jesus. Heck, I want it for every woman. I want this book, like a movement of God, to reach into every heart and set them ablaze with passion and purpose (pray for that if you would).
Fear says it’s impossible. God says anything’s possible. God’s voice wins.
Will you join me? Beyond a shadow of any of my doubts, I need you.
Seriously, will you join the Fear Fighting movement? Will you spread the word? Will you light hearts on fire, starting with your own? Will you pass the book around? The message? The heart?
Do as God leads, that is what I did as I wrote this book. And, God never leads one wrong.
Let’s go, my sisters in Christ Jesus, I need God, so do you – let’s leave debilitating trembling behind so we can walk into God’s most astounding callings.
3 Ways to Join the Fear Fighting Movement:
- Buy Fear Fighting!!!
- Share about Fear Fighting on Facebook. (Sample: If you want to find purpose, passion and new courage then the book Fear Fighting is for you. Fight fear this new year! Check it out: https://www.amazon.com/Fear-Fighting-Awakening-Courage-Overcome/dp/0801019346)
- Join the 4 Days to Fearless Challenge: https://www.purposefulfaith.com/four-days-to-fearless/
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Hi Kelly, I’m so happy your book launch. So glad God is working through you to bless His people.
Happy new year and God bless
Congratulations Kelly! Wishing you much success on your book launch today. May God do more than you could ask or imagine! Be blessed! – Kia
Joining with you today in prayer for the excitement of the book launch! For the peace that passes understanding! For the message to be broadcast far and wide!
Congratulations Kelly on your book launch day! You are an inspiration! Keep pressing toward the prize for God’s Kingdom. I can’t wait to get my copy! Cheering you on girl!
This book is for so many of us who are needing that push, that nudge and that hug from arms that have been there and overcome. Your words have ignited a spark of hope in those fledgling places that have been dampened by the ‘what if’ moments.
Thank you for writing this, thank you for sharing it. Praying for God’s favor as it takes wings and flies.
Kelly, I’m cheering for you as your book releases. It’s sure to touch many lives. Thank you for the reminder that God’s word, His truths, conquer every fear. Thanks for the reminder of where my eyes need to stay.
You truly are an inspiration!!
Prayers continued during this big day!!!! *pom pom break dance*
Kelly, I’m so happy you followed God’s leading and didn’t let fear stop you! Many blessings to you and on your book! May it reach the hearts of many who need to learn how to fight fear and trust God. Hugs to you! xo
AAAAMEN! You know where I was when my book was first released to social media? Throwing up because I was so nervous!!! I even had an entire chapter on being brave. I am learning to rest in the Holy Spirit even when I’m terrified. EEEKK
Love your beautiful blog and can’t wait to read more!!
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