This week, it is the time of year when almost EVERYONE comes out with their New Year resolution. On purple images, one person shares their dream to conquer their business, another person posts a long sentimental post about how they are going to be present more.
I don’t know why friends, but sometimes, I feel jaded about all these resolution posts. Maybe its because I’ve failed a time or two…and sometimes it is just easier to give up and to judge others than it is to keep trying…
…Anyway, I am trying again. Because, if God doesn’t give up on me, why should I give up on working with Him, in order to be like Him.
This year, I am pressing into one simple word: Patience.
Patience, that still listens and cares — when others talk too much.
Patience so that I don’t quickly cut-off others off with my views when they are sharing important heart-stories.
Patience that allows others to go before me.
Patience that trusts God to show up, more than it feels it has to cut its own Amazon rainforest path.
Patience that believes in people’s change — and my own — even if it is slow-coming.
Patience that keeps faith that God’s work is happening even if a breakthrough feels far.
Patience that endures through hard-conversations to see better outcomes come to life.
Patience that doesn’t respond quickly with anger or annoyance.
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” (Gal. 6:9)
I don’t want to give up. What about you? Is there something God is calling you to work with Him on? You don’t face it alone. You don’t go at it without help.
As you consider this “resolution”, I hope to encourage you with three ideas, I’ve learned over the years…
Sometimes there is value in:
One: Keeping it Quiet.
Even though I shared with you all today, not everyone needs to know your goal. Sometimes, if we think others notice our botch-up, we are more likely to quiet. Pick one or two encouragers and then keep the rest to you.
Two: Defining it.
Just as I defined what I meant by my goal, the more you can add clarity around it — the more easily you’ll be able to see it through.
Three: Giving yourself a ton of grace.
Allow this change to be so full of grace, you will keep trying to the end of the year. Giving-up is usually an indicator that we have stopped giving our self grace.
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No, I haven’t chosen my word or resolution yet. I always wait until the new year when life takes back on a little normalcy. I like the part about defining it and grace. I have found one works wonders. Thank you for sharing. Maree
“Giving-up is usually an indicator that we have stopped giving our self grace.”
This really resonated with me. As someone who is in recovery, I know what it means to fail many times. But when I look at the long journey, and see the progress that God has given me, and see that even in monumental failure and setback, God has forgiven me and given me the option and strength to continue, this is when I grow. And I look back and see God’s forgiveness, not my failure. I am blessed.